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OCt. 15, 2020 the one year that changed my life

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Edited: Oct 27


Oct. 21, 2019

This is my first time blogging, so bear with me.

Who am I?

I would like to say I’ve had a very adventurous life so far. I was born in Romania and left my home country for Canada when I was ten years old. I have lived in 7 different cities while in Canada, and I don’t know how many cars I’ve had, I’m always in search of something that I can’t find.

Fast forward 20 years and I find myself back in my home country of Romania. It was supposed to be a 2-week trip here, but I decided to stay indefinitely. I now have a beautiful girlfriend (soon to be wife) and the best dog a man could ask for. I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason.

Why did I choose the date of Oct. 15, 2020?

It is exactly one year since the moment I knew that my life was going to change. I'm not talking about a temporary change, like moving to a better place or getting a new vehicle, I'm talking about a major change.

I have always been an entrepreneur in every sense of the word. Whether it was trying to get something for nothing or trading up for certain things like cars. My humble beginnings had a lot to do with it, I believe. I'm blessed to have a never-ending hunger to do better to get more, to make myself better in every way possible.

Up until this point I have tried all kinds of different business ideas and all of them have failed, but my persistence to win only got stronger and stronger. I have come to peace with my failed ventures and learned a lot along the way. In fact, I don’t look at them as failures, just something to look back on and learn from it for next time.

In a years’ time from now I will be looking at this first article and saying to myself: “I told you that you can do it!”

Of course, all this couldn’t have been done without the help of my partner and mentor, Mr. Avidon M. Respes. I was looking for investors for this opportunity and had no such luck. I almost gave up until one day, while surfing a forum, I replied to someone’s post about not being able to find investors and Avidon made himself seen.

We instantly hit it off, and the one thing that stood out about him was that he had the same hunger I did, but on a whole other level. Not only did we have a lot of similarities about our professional aspirations, but also on the personal side.

We feed off each other and he had put a lot of trust in me which in turn has made me more confident in the fact that I know this is now possible.

I don’t want to give out what we are working on yet as it is still in the works but all I can say is that it's going to be big. First, we take over Romania, then the US and then who knows.

We are planning to build an empire. I want my children’s children to never have to worry about money. I know this won’t be easy but I am ready and excited for the upcoming challenges that are coming in the future. That is also one of the reasons I wanted to document my journey for this next year.

My hope is that someone might get inspired from this. If just one person changes his or her life due to this blog, then I’ve done my job.

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